Why do men cheat? I believe that men cheat because they just get tired of the same thing. They like to experiment with other women. My idea is that a man shouldn't commit if he can't be loyal. Men break up families when they cheat. Women don't like to share their man with other women. I know I don't. I guess it depends on the womans morals and practices. I was married for 10 years and when I found out that my husband was cheating on me I took my kids and hauled _ss. I felt betrayed and hurt for a long time. I told myself that I would never trust a man again because I started to believe that all men are dogs. They can't keep their stuff in their pants. I did all I could as a good wife to make him happy but I guess it wasn't enough. I truly believe that it takes a fool to learn that love don't love nobody. I have four beautiful girls out of my marriage and I don't blame them for anything because everything happened so fast. I'm not divorced because I don't have the money to get one. I don't want to forgive my husband again because he cheated over and over everytime that I forgave him. I learned my lesson the hard way. Once a cheat always a cheat. Now he's asking me if he can come live with me after he had his fun and he seen that the grass aint always greener on the other side. Too bad. I can forgive but I'll never forget. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me fool me three times it's really over !!!! After watching Tyler Perrys &quote "Madea goes to jail" I realize that I had to go on with my life no matter how much it hurts. It really aint easy but thank god for child support. I'm a single mom and I'll stay that way until god sends me another man. Meanwhile I'll work on learning to trust men again. I should've did what Elaina Bobbit did. She cut his stuff off while he was sleep and ran away with it in her hand. LOL